Thursday, 27 November 2014

Worded Agora: A Proclamation

Shine with the stars
And talented brilliant Academia
Nectar made of everything Nigerian
And Africa cues into this agenda
Making sweet milk with words that calm
Originality trained like a commando

Done tough in unbreakable bond
Aloha in the worded Agora
Vigorous engagements in high rev
Instructed in industry like a Nazi
Dancing to the Alpha band

Lean on Grace as you stand tall
And leave no room for Acrophobia
Going higher all the distance long
With accurate speed mastered by few
And lovely ascendency like an acappela
Made in Heaven to beautify this realm
Pulling up surprises right to the top
A life tuned to Divine Agenda

© 2014, by Agoso Arnobius Huladeino Bamaiyi
For a younger brother, El Poetico.
Happy birthday Sanamo David Lagwampa.

Sunday, 23 November 2014

A Beautiful Tomorrow

Though the future looks dark
Through the aperture of this turbulent mark
And hope flies away like a lark
From the violent doggy bark
Soiling up our peaceful park
And ignorance swamps reasoned hark

I see a beautiful tomorrow
Where war we no longer borrow
Or walk streets marked with sorrow
Through the accursed backward narrow
And the imposed uninvited harrow
From men with agendas shallow
In poisoned anemic marrow

Let the good people arise
Take revered cowardice by surprise
Through united and courageous enterprise
In strengthened harmony that beggars reprise
On acceptable principles and not mere surmise
Our destiny from decay to prise

Ignorance will bow to reason
Corruption will be out of season
Righteousness will arise in person
Hatred will be thrown into prison
Sentenced for inhuman treason
By the people it sought to jettison


© By Agoso Arnobius Huladeino Bamaiyi

Monday, 17 November 2014

Biographical lessons of success: Gen. Collin Luther Powell (Rtd)


General Collin Luther Powell (Rtd) is considered one of the most successful African-Americans of all time. Born in 1937, he became the first black and the youngest man, at 52, ever to preside as Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff (JCS); a post he held from 1989 until his retirement from the U.S. army in 1992. He joined politics and went ahead to become the first Blackman to serve as the U.S. Secretary of State during the first term of George W. Bush. Collin Luther Powell is regarded as both a skilled military commander and an astute politician. He outlined his recipe for success in the following words:
“Success is the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty, and persistence” – Collin Powell.
He stresses that these are the very qualities that helped to propel him to the pinnacle of his career, both as a military man and as a politician. These same qualities, if you cultivate them in your life, will help you also to rise to the top of your career, whatever it may be. Let’s look at them one-by-one:
1. Perfection. 
To be perfect means to meet all requirements or lacking no essential element or component. Another word for perfection which is more in common use is the word “excellence”. You see the quality of your life and work – at the level of output - is in direct correlation to your commitment to excellence. Tom Landry said as much:
“The quality of q life is in direct proportion to its commitment to excellence” – Tom Landry.
You will not be outstandingly successful if you are not fully committed to pursuing and ensuring excellence in everything you do. Life is full of the ordinary and the common and, therefore, the ordinary and common do not catch our attention and command our respect. Only uncommon and extra-ordinary things catch our attention and command our respect. That is why only people who reach out for and attain excellence in their lives and professions attain outstanding success and command universal respect.
I encourage you to reach out for and secure the highest and the best in your life and in all your pursuits, including all the small details and the seemingly unimportant. Great things are born out of small things. Attain smartly and dedicatedly to the small things of your life and work with excellence in all things and see how your life will turn out excellently. Excellence, in turn, will catch the attention of those who are responsible for your promotion, and they will act in your favor. That is how your life will keep moving forward and upward.
2. Hard work.
I have always said, and I say it again, nothing worthwhile happens in life except by work. The great inventor and entrepreneur, Thomas Alva Edison, bears witness to this truth. He said:
“I never did anything worth doing by accident, nor did any of my inventions come by accident; they came by work” – Thomas Edison.
To do anything great in life you must first plan and then work committedly and conscientiously to actualize your plans. There is just no other legitimate way around work. Any unplanned and un-worked success is either a fraud or a fluke, and both cannot stand the test of time. Only legitimate and committed work can secure genuine success that has God’s blessings on it and man’s approval. Such success will stand the scrutiny and test of time. Speaking about this King Solomon says, in Proverbs 28:20;
“A faithful man shall abound with blessings: but he that maketh haste to be rich shall not be innocent.”
He adds further in Proverbs 22:29;
“Seest thou a man diligent in his business? He shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men.”
The key to meeting the men and women who can make the difference you seek is your diligence in your in all your pursuits. Not only that but also diligence - commitment to work – will eventually make you great!
3. Learning from failure.
He who cannot learn from his mistakes and failures - and take necessary action to rectify them - is bound to repeat such mistakes over and over again. Nobody takes such fellows seriously and they never go far in life.
As success is never ending, so also failure is never final. Just because you failed at a particular project or attempt does not mean that you are a failure. No! No!! No!!! Far from it! You can always do something to turn the tide in your favour and eventually succeed. You are a failure only when you accept it by remaining in it, doing nothing to turn things around. Australian businessman and author, Bill Newman, said as much:
“The greatest failure in life is to stop trying… No one can cheat you out of ultimate success but yourself” – Bill Newman.
You are not what people or circumstance say you are until you append your signature to it. Do not accept and thus perpetuate your failure. You can always fight back. Learn from your failures. Take all the necessary actions to remedy the situation. Get up one more time. Dust yourself up and try one more time as a wiser and more matured person. Learn all the positive lessons you can learn from all the negative events in your life. This kind of attitude will take you very far in life, and as you begin to come into the objects of your vision and dreams, you will soon see that even failure can be a great teacher.
4. Loyalty.
The world tends to underestimate the value and power of loyalty. Everyone appears to be in a hurry and many have reached the wrong conclusion that they must cut down those ahead of them to get ahead in life. But such a behavior is a trap; for he who sows rebellion and disloyalty digs a hole for himself, and he will eventually fall amidst numerous troubles and shame. He who sows loyalty will reap recognition and promotion plus peace and prosperity. Loyalty provides the underpinnings for a stable and influential life.
“You’ve got to give loyalty down, if you want loyalty up” – Donald T. Regan.
He who is loyal to those ahead of him today, will have faithful and loyal followers tomorrow. Loyalty wins the heart of your bosses, making them to trust you. That trust translates into tangible benefits such as direct mentorship, recognitions, recommendations, and promotions. A loyal follower today, makes a great leader tomorrow. Loyalty is not foolishness. It is a great virtue of the mind that shows your level of civility.
“Nothing is more noble, nothing more venerable than fidelity. Faithfulness and truth are the most sacred excellences and endowments of the human mind” – Marcus Tullius Cicero.
5. Persistence.
To make meaningful progress in life and successfully achieve or fulfill your dreams and visions, you must be willing and able to hold on to and carry on with your pursuits against all odds. You see, nothing good comes easy. To arrive at the objects of your pursuits successfully, you must persist unrelentingly, regardless the difficulties and problems you encounter along the way. Dr. Butler advices as much:
“When things get rough, do not move. People and pressures shift, but the soil remains the same no matter where you go.”
William Arthur Ward gives much the same advice:
“Success is sometimes a series of failure held together by strong hands of determination and persistence” – William A. Ward.
If what you are seeking is right and good, and if its successful accomplishment will bring increase to you and to others; then do not give it up no matter the odds against it. Persistence is one of the major keys to success in life. It works, and is applicable, in all areas of life. No matter what you do, if you are persistent, you will eventually succeed. Henry Ford said:
“Many successful people today were failures yesterday, who never gave up” – Henry Ford.
Hold on to your dreams and pursuits tenaciously. Do not give up. As you hold on and persist, things will begin to take shape. People will begin to come to your aid. Circumstances will begin to bow. The winds will begin to favour you. Great things will begin to happen. Mike Murdock said:
“Great things always happen to those who persist. Winners are people who are willing to try one more time” – Mike Murdock.
Keep trying and fighting for as long - and as many times - as it takes. You will eventually run the victory lap and sing the victory song. Like General Collin Luther Powell, your life will be lined with many significant first and you will end up great. 
Keep moving forward and upward.
See you at the top.
I love you.
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Saturday, 15 November 2014

Geared for Greatness

I wrote this poem as an encouragement for and proclamations into the future of a talented, committed and hard working up-and-coming broadcaster and blogger, Ochekliye Ramatu Ada, who I have the pleasure to mentor from a distance. The future is as great as you are willing to make it. In these lines, you will find words that you can use. Love you all.

On-air personality
Coming with originality
Holding down the audience
Exuding confidence and brilliance
Knocking out gross ignorance
Looking to promote excellence
In the pursuit of Motherland essence
Yielding to nothing but greater good
Establishing probity in the neighborhood

Raising high the flag of Africa
All through Europe and America
Mixing royalty with Shades of Brown
And pure culture all grown
To harvest a unique people
Until we all become profitable

All geared for greatness
Doing broadcast with sweetness
And all things that make for uniqueness



©2014, by Agoso Arnobius Huladeino Bamaiyi

Thursday, 16 October 2014

THE SIZE OF THE FIGHT IN THE DOG


In Africa, we make a lot use of didactic stories, sayings, proverbs, idioms, and figurative expressions to teach moral lessons and to motivate people to actions that are productive and beneficial to both the individual and the society. These sayings and expressions are deliberately crafted to instruct as well as delight the listener.
The Bible, speaking about such words and expressions in Proverbs 25:11, says:
“A word fitly spoken is like gold in pictures of silver”
This scriptural proverb alludes to the fact that such expressions are beautiful and expensive all at the same time. There expensiveness stems from the fact that the lessons they teach and the motivation they bring can change a person’s life for good and eventually lead to success and fortune. Well articulated thoughts and ideas are a captivating fascination Worldwide chiefly because they facilitate human growth and development.
I want to use one such expression to bring out one or two lessons about life that I trust you will find very useful going forward. This particular expression is one of my favorite and ever since I came across it over two decades ago, I have used it to motivate myself and others with great results. It is a saying attributed to several people but the most likely author is Mark Twain. It says:
“It is not the size of the dog that is in the fight but the size of the fight that is in the dog”
This saying underlines the universal truth that the fastest does not automatically win races; the strongest does not automatically win fights; the wisest does not automatically win the best places; the most skillful does not automatically win favor; the most talented does not automatically win fortune; the most gifted does not automatically win wealth; the most connected does not automatically win the best positions. No! Other factors and forces come into play – factors such as how well you make use of your time, how smartly you take the opportunities that come your way from time to time, and how strongly determined and highly motivated you are in your pursuits – and these factors can and will tilt the equation to balance out in favor of the disadvantaged.
The Bible agrees with this position. King Solomon, the preacher, in Ecclesiastes 9:11, says:
“I returned and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to wise, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all”
This means that if you are highly motivated and strongly determined, and you use your time and chances productively and purposefully; you can beat the odds stacked against you and end up successful in this life.
German author and poet, Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe (1749 – 1832) agrees. He says:
“Motivation will almost always beat talent”
Mary Kay Ash (1918 – 2001), entrepreneur and cosmetologist, adds:
“Those who are blessed with the most talent don’t necessarily outperform everyone else. It’s the people with follow-through who excel”
Italian actress, Sophia Loren, also agrees. She says:
“Getting ahead in a difficult profession requires avid faith in yourself. That is why some people with mediocre talent, but with great inner drive, go much further than people with vastly superior talent”
Financial and investment counselor, Charles Schwab, also agrees. He says:
“A man will succeed in almost anything for which he has unlimited enthusiasm”
There you have it; confirmation coming from the mouth of people who know. You may be a small dog right now, do not give up or lose hope. Smallness is not a foregone conclusion that you will end small. Your case has not been foreclosed. You can end up as the top dog. Whatever you do, do not give up the fight. Stir yourself up. Stand tall and strong. Refuel your motivation and determination. Refire your enthusiasm. Go at your goals with an unflinching zeal. Pay the price, in time and labor, and the prize will be yours.
Professor Adebayo Williams started school at the age of 12, owing to his disadvantaged background. He studied and worked hard, and today he is one of the leading African scholars in the United States of America and the World at large.
Sir Olatunbosun Ige Olumide, a renowned educationist and theologian of international repute, also had a disadvantaged background. He pushed “amalanke” at the Lagos ports during holidays to make money to pay his way through school. By the time he died a few years ago, he had become one of the most educated and decorated human beings on the planet with six doctorate degrees that he studied for and earned in Business Management, Management Science, International Affairs, Hebrew Literature, Religious Education, and Theology, plus over 50 honorary doctorate degrees from leading universities and seminaries around the World.
Arch Bishop Benson Idahosa was born an ordinary man with an extra-ordinary inner drive and a forceful personality. He came from such a poor background that he wore his first shoes at the age of 18! But by the time he died 42 years later, he had become one of the richest and most influential clergymen, not only in Nigeria, but in the whole World.

Life is full of such inspiring stories where a combination of inner drive, determination, diligence, discipline, desire, etc, work together, overcome daunting challenges and serious disadvantage to rise to the top and accomplish great things.
Your story can not be different. Your disadvantaged background and unfavorable circumstances are not strong enough to hold you back as long as you are motivated enough to push forward against all odds. You will eventually breakthrough. You will come to the limelight. You will shine in this life. Nothing is impossible.

Monday, 13 October 2014

Coming In From the Cold


Are you an underdog, a rank outsider? Are you living under; underestimated, under-appreciated, undervalued, underpaid, and under everything negative? Have you been beaten down by life; defeated, dusted, bruised, and left on the ground? Are you left standing in the cold? Do not give up hope. Stir yourself up and give life a fight. You can beat the odds stacked against you. You can come in from the cold and be taken into the warmth of victory and success.
The legendary American poet and educator, Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807 – 1882), made a very powerful statement that I want to draw your attention to. He said:
“Noble souls through dust and heat, rise from disaster and defeat the stronger”
Defeat is never the end. It is not meant to be. It can be a retreat to reconsider and refire for a relaunch. You can rise out of it stronger and better. You can rewrite your script and act out a noble and glorious life. The question is; are you ready and willing to act nobly? Let me tell you about a lady that acted nobly and turned her story around. She did not give up when the going got tough and the odds were stacked against her. She is Yeka Onka, winner of Idol Nigeria 2011.
Yeka Onka is a good example of how determination and doggedness, a never-say-never and never-say-die attitude, can cause one to triumph against all odds and do better than people more talented and more gifted than you. She first auditioned for the show in the regional auditions in Enugu and was rejected by her judge on the grounds that she was not good enough for the reality TV show. That rejection would have forced any ordinary soul to give up their dream of becoming an international singing star, but not Yeka! That did not discourage her. She quickly gathered her things and travelled to Calabar and auditioned for the same show and was rejected for the second time for the same reason by the same judge! Certainly this is the end of the road for Yeka Onka? No!
Yeka Onka gathered her things again and travelled to Lagos for the final audition. As circumstances would have it, she appeared before the same judge who rejected her twice before, in Enugu and Calabar! When she came in and saw the judge, she felt like the ground should open up and swallow her! But, instead of turning around and running away, she gathered her emotions, steadied herself and put her entire soul into her performance, giving it her best. This time around, the judge was impressed and gave her the nod to join the show!
During the show proper, Yeka Onka was taken to task by the judges on several occasions and was bitterly criticized, especially by Yinka Davis who allowed Yeka no breathing space. Yeka Onka kept her cool and went through the show with equanimity and grace, believing and confessing that she will win. She made it to the finals and contested against Naomie Mac, a girl without doubt more gifted than Yeka but not as determined and desirous for victory as Yeka Onka. Naomie must have concluded that her talent alone will push her to victory. Big mistake! Talent is a great thing, but without pushfulness stemming from a strong desire to win, it will always come short. Yeka Onka had both talent and a jumbo-sized drive. Her desire was apparent and infectious.
Against the expectations of experts and those knowledgeable in music, and against the expectations of the judges on the show (Yinka Davis, Audu Maikori, and international super star -  Jeffry Daniel), Yeka Onka was voted winner by the international TV viewers! Her determination and self-belief paid off handsomely. She walked home with a prize of 7 million Naira, an SUV, and a recording contract, among many other things. Today she is an international singing sensation. She came in from the cold into the warmth of victory and success, living out her dreams joyfully.
Yeka Onka’s tenacity and dogged determination takes my mind to a famous statement made by William Arthur Ward (1921 – 1994). In it, he shows the link between success and determination:
“Success is sometimes a series of failure held together by strong hands of determination.”
You are created and wired for success, but life will not give you that success on a platter of gold. Because you deserve success does not mean that success will come to you cheap. You will have to fight to get what you deserve. You will experience defeat and encounter setbacks along the way, but defeat and setbacks are not an excuse to give up. They are a spur to dig in deeper and bring forth the awesome resources in you. They are a call to stir yourself to greater mindfulness and resourcefulness. They are a training to build and strengthen your muscles so you can hold on and move up to better things. Do not give up. Keep holding on. Keep believing. Keep working. Keep pushing forward. Just like Yeka Onka, keep gathering your things and moving forward to confront the next challenge. The cold will not kill you, as long as you do not give up. You will come in from the cold into the warmth of victory and success.
“Great things always happen to those who persist. Winners are people who are willing to try one more time” – Mike Murdock.
Keep moving forwards and upwards.
See you at the top.
I love you.

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